Dear Zannah,

I met this guy and I just couldn't contain myself. It felt like fireworks the second we spotted each other. Unfortunately, after spending the evening together I let him come in for what was supposed to be coffee and probably over indulged. The next day we went to the beach and met some of his friends. I started to feel uncomfortable because they were so grungy looking. He wasn't, but they were. We stopped by his house to get a change of clothes and his place was a wreck. He lives alone. It was a total turn off. Help! I really like him otherwise. Am I being too picky?

Jessica from Vancouver

Dear Jessica

Often times the polarity or pull that we feel gets a little disruptive when it comes to being reasonable. This can result in giving too much too soon and before you know it, we are with someone we can't be with long term. Result, two hearts end up broken. Not good. The wonderful magnetism that is so often misread as healthy instinct unfortunately, is not the only thing required for a healthy relationship. In your case, it's not that you're picky but that your picker is off. You have a maximum attraction and an alchemical incompatibility with this person. Unfortunately,one must know their range of tolerance and this is easily identified with the Knowledge of Y.O.U. Alchemical incompatibility is the number one reason for failed relationships. If we go a hair outside our range of tolerance, the boat will tip over. Know your range and you'll be fine. Seems you have the polarity part down intuitively. I suggest you not invite anyone into your field of intimacy until other elements are deemed suitable.

Thoughtfully, Zannah

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Zannah Hackett provides answers for singles in search of the perfect mate and those teachers, coaches and experts valuing evolutionary relationship knowledge. She shares a unique body of information of a 3000 year old hidden body of wisdom that she has tailored expressly for this audience. It has most assuredly produced new hope for mankind. Zannah has spent nine years mastering this incredible language of love for purposes of bringing men and women together for all the right reasons and cultivating healthy family and work environments. Zannah's clientele has been diverse over the years and the focus of her efforts has largely been towards targeting those dynamics that most effect men and women coming to terms with the realization that our presence is not an accident but instead a part of something much bigger. Single men and women as well as professionals in the relationship industry have attended her sessions and seminars and continue to seek her pure, honest and objective perception of human nature. She teaches others how to become their own matchmaker in a variety of settings and how to use some very old secret techniques no longer acknowledged in today’s crazy world of human analysis. Zannah has successfully used the wisdom to meet the man of her dreams, raise her four children and incorporate the knowledge into her great life. Now she shares this insight in her new book, "The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking".

Zannah a preceptor in the field of self-discovery and has been training men and women in body, mind and spiritual fitness for over 30 years worldwide. Her experience includes degrees from Arizona State, having been a professional modern and ballet repertoire dancer, Area Training Director for The Fitness Institute, Director of Health Services Development for Samaritan Hospitals, Personal Trainer for the famous Golden Door Fitness Resort, columnist, author, television/radio talk show hostess, and a non-denominational minister ordained by The ADL, Alliance of Divine Love.