The first thing you want to do is to get into the line of sight of the man you are attracted to. When you catch his eye, you must give him the most inviting and receptive look you can manage, for three seconds Count them. Eye contact, eye contact, and eye contact. No quick counts, no matter how nervous you get.

However, catching a man's eye for two or three seconds is quite normal. It's when you continue to look at him for the fourth and fifth second that you indicate you're interested. Okay. Now smile! Now you're being flirtatious. Now he knows that you're looking at him and are interested in him.

By now, because you are flirting with a person you dont want to be rejected by, you are probably in a panic. But heres the good part. Even though you are certain that he is observing your melt down, he isnt, because he is too busy with his own anxiety and fear of rejection. At that moment, his worst nightmare is that he will come over to you and say something stupid, and you will turn away.

So, if you live through this Five-Second Flirt Technique and youve managed to keep your mouth shut, more likely than not this man will walk over to you and start talking. He may say something right or stupid, suave or nave, but in effect hell open the channel of conversation and now you can begin to respond.

Copywrite - Sandra Harmon - 2005

Sandra Harmon

SANDRA HARMON

Sandra Harmon has become one of the country's most popular Love, Dating, Sex and Relationship Coach since the phenomenal success of her two, best selling, self help books, the powerful and ground breaking "Getting To I Do" and it’s sequel, "Staying Married and Loving It".

Sandra's one-on-one love, sex, dating and relationship coaching is geared strictly toward her clients personal needs and goals. Known as "The Love Coach To The Stars", her clients, many of whom are Hollywood superstars and power brokers, all swear by her simple but successful methods for helping them find and keep lasting love.

A popular public speaker on relationship issues and celebrity marriages, Sandra is a frequent guest on such television shows as "Montel" and "Maury" and has been featured on hundreds of radio shows, newspapers and magazines.

Sandra has also had an extraordinary career as a journalist, TV writer and film maker. She won an Emmy Award for writing the late-night talk show, "The Dick Cavett Show" for ABC-TV. She wrote and produced Real Life Stories, on Lifetime Television, and was the head writer of "The New Bill Cosby Show", an ABC-TV comedy variety series.

Sandra's popular first novel, the critically acclaimed, "A Girl Like Me", which was based on her on life, was published by Dutton Books. She also wrote and produced the television movie, "Fast Friends" for NBC, which was based on her own experiences as a writer on "The Dick Cavett Show". She also produced "Promises to Keep" a CBS movie starring Claire Bloom and Robert Mitchum.,

Sandra is also the co-author of "Elvis and Me" - (the story of Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley - written with Priscilla Presley ) - which sold nearly one million copies in hard cover and three million in paperback and was, according to The Wall Street Journal, the tenth largest seller of the l980's, occupying the #l spot on the New York Times Best seller list for more than fifty weeks in both hard and soft cover.